Vee’s Inspiration May 18, 2024
These are not my words, but they spoke to me, so I share. I hope they speak to you as well.
Embarrassment is the cost of entry but it should never stop you.
The feelings of starting something new are often not pleasant:
Feeling embarrassed in comparison to others.
Intense feelings of being overwhelmed.
Feeling like a failure.
Imposter syndrome.
But, just know, every single person will feel these things no matter their status, power or position.
Here are 3 key methods to start something new with unbreakable confidence:
1. Embrace the Beginner's Mindset
Here it is important to not focus on achievements. Instead, focus on growth and learning.
Know that:
Every expert was once a beginner
Mistakes are a natural part of learning
Curiosity is more important than perfection
Understanding that everyone has to start somewhere will be your driver to keep moving forward.
If it’s feeling overwhelming, take a deep breath and visualise where you will be later down the line. Remember comparing
your day one to someone’s 10 years is never going to feel good.
2. Surround Yourself with Support
Most feelings of embarrassment come from:
Fear of judgment
Lack of support
Self-doubt
Surround yourself with positive, encouraging people who believe in your potential. Their support will keep confidence high
and help you stay motivated.
3. Celebrate Small Wins
It’s a simple equation:
When we can see our progress, our confidence grows.
Focus on celebrating small achievements:
Set manageable goals and track your progress
Acknowledge each milestone, no matter how small
Reward yourself for your efforts
The collection of small wins can often add up. Meaning your confidence will build fast.
To get over the embarrassment of starting something new:
Remember:
1. Embrace the beginner's mindset
2. Surround yourself with support
3. Celebrate small wins
You don’t have to be great to start.
But you do have to start to be great!
Chris Donnelly
Have a Great Day and Stay Safe!
Vee’s Inspiration @ Vecus.net